I am 4 months pregnant. I noticed my fiancé has been going out with his team (at work) too often. There was this one time I tried picking him up after an event I went to, but instead of going home with me, he chose to stay with them until after midnight. They are staying at his supervisor's condo (take note: the supervisor is a woman). That night was a fight but I was not mad not because of doubting him but because he did not come with me. Then instances are repeated and I decided to pick him up after work so that he won't drink with them (again) or at least I'd be there where they are.
And so after work, they decided to drink somewhere near the office. So I went with them and my fiancé said we won't be staying long. His supervisor told me: "Hey isn't it you are pregnant? Are you really going with us in that kind of place, for sure there is a lot of smoke inside." I only responded with smile. When we arrived at the location, my fiancé and I seated in a way the supervisor is on his other side. At first I don't care because it could be just a coincidence or the place is too crowded, but since we got there until an hour and 30 minutes after, her knees/thighs where attached to my fiancé's all along. When I noticed I moved away from him like around a feet and a half away. When he noticed I am too far from him he asked me: "What's wrong?".
Good thing I was able to keep my composure. I know I don't need to stoop down on her bitchy level. I typed a message using my phone and have my fiancé read it. This is what I typed: "I don't want to be near you, that girl who has her knees and thighs attached to yours might get jealous. I might bother her." Then he immediately moved away from her and whispered to me "I am sorry I never noticed. I didn't think of it that way."
I told him: "We are going home, NOW!". He did not respond but I know he was alarmed. When he stood up to go to the restroom instantly after that, that supervisor probably have noticed that I already knew what she was doing. Although I still smiled to everyone, she probably noticed the smile is different now. She immediately called another member of the team to seat beside her while my fiancé was at the rest room.
When he got back we immediately left after bidding goodbye to everyone, except her. While walking towards the vehicle I told him: "She was already doing that for a long time. That probaby started when you always go to her place. My instinct is not wrong. What I was thinking all along isn't wrong. I know something is going on while you have been always away. She's already too comfortable doing that. It only means she's been doing it, and you do not disagree on whatever she does. For Godsake, I am pregnant. She should be thankful I did not slap her in the face."
He reassured me he didn't put any malice on it and he's not sure if that really happened at the condo because her husband is there. I told him that I trust him, but I don't trust her. That is probably why my first impression to this supervisor is already negative. According to my research she is really the bitchy type. She had an affair with someone while married to her husband. And the affair started when they always drink together.
I gave my man an ultimatum. I told him that he shall never go to anywhere with that girl without me.
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